Invisible barrier .... why we should just dream that out of our mind

It was valentine day. My wife complained to me she can't go anywhere since having our little girl. I got to pity her. She really did not go anywhere of note for the past four months. For her, it is too much hassle to take all the necessary equipments for any trip longer than 2 hours from the house. For those of you who have no kids, just imagine breast pump, ice box, need to look for mother friendly location etc. So my poor wife end up in the house most of the weekends. She was truely buely bored. For me, it is not necessary. In live, this are the kind of invisible barrier that we built around ourselve limiting what we can do for our happiness. They are more about mental state than any true constraint. I hope she will start to go out again and enjoy live and also look not at our new born baby as a barrier. May the dream fairy brings wonderful thoughts to her mind tonite and fill her with inspiration to search for fun.